Author archive: mykela30

A Little This…A Little That

Whats good folks? Same shit, different day here. I know I havent blogged in a bit. Site was down for a little while as well as I just havent felt like it. But alas, here I iz! Hope everyone is well. Im hanging in. Alot of shit has transpired in the past month. So much, I don even know where to begin. I guess, first and foremost, Im single again. By choice ofcourse. Yea, I know, that was short lived huh? Well, when you find out that the person you were loving and who is supposed to be loving you has done nothing but tell lies since day one, it makes it pretty easy to walk away and not look back. It still amazes me at times how someone can make themselves appear to be one way and in the blink of an eye switch and be so completely different. But thats just life I guess. What doesnt kill you simply makes you stronger, right? Although the whole situation left a bitter taste in my mouth and even moreso made me reinforce my walls, Im not going to stop being the person that I am simply bc someone isnt who they portrayed themselves to be. Everyone you meet in life has a purpose in your life, even in those time when you cant see what that purpose is. I think, I was simply so ready to give the love I had inside of me to someone that I allowed that to cloud my judgement and my view of seeing him for the lying, cheating and deceiving asshole that he really was. And truth be known, I saw it, I just wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt eventhough he wasnt worth it. But its ok. Yea, he hurt my feelings. Hell, he even caused a little crack in  my heart but I think the moment that I truly figured out all of his lies and started to see him for the person he really was I started to put my walls back up so he didnt break my spirit. What i find ironic in the whole situation though? The moment that I got fed up and said I was walking away, he tried to talk shit and find things wrong that I did in the relationship. Why do people do that? If you fuck up. just be man/woman enough to say, “hey, I fucked up and Im sorry” but dont try to drag someone else in the mud when you know good and well that they really didnt do anything. But that just how some people are I guess. They never want to see what they did wrong and admit to that. Its all good though bc regardless of whether they ever want to admit it to anyone or even to the person they wronged, they know deep down what the deal was and who has that blame to carry. So at the end of the day, I am totally good with how I handled everything in the relationship and even thereafter. Although I must say, if I saw him in the street on fire and I had a bottle of water…I’d drink it. Lol.

Really?

If youre going to lie. Atleast be good at it.

Protected: WTF is really going on?

Best Thing I Never Had

This is gonna be a quick blog bc Im doing a million things right now, but I just needed to get this off my chest… I know we’ve all had that one person in our lives that we feel that we just couldnt do without. That one person that even though things were just never “quite right” in the relationship, but you could never fully walk away, for whatever reason. That person who would push you to that breaking point where you got fed up and decided to walk away and say fuck it and felt so proud that you did, only to allow them to walk right back in your life a few months later? Well, I think anyone who has been following my blogs for a while and read my old post before the site was revamped knows who mine was. I must say that I never thought, even though I tried to fake the funk many times and say to the opposite, that I would ever be able to fully get over and move on from that person. But as I was sitting here tonite getting my things together, out of nowhere it hit me that I am SO over him. I am utterly and completely TRULY over him. I am happier than a pig in slop and loving the man that I have now and there is nothing that my old flame, or anyone else for that matter, could ever say or do that would detour, derail or even sway me from that. And I have to honestly admit that, that is the first time that I could ever say that with 100% certainty for many years. Don’t get me wrong, I wish him no ill will and I will always have love in my heart for him but thats pretty much it. All the years of back and forth, arguments, ups and downs, tears, heartache and everything else was simply to prepare me for the man that Im with now and to make me a better and stronger person. So for that, I thank him. Eventhough he put my heart thru pure hell, I am the person that I am today partly because of him. Whats sad is the fact that I dont think he ever truly saw how good of a woman I was nor will he ever know how great of a woman I am now. But thats his loss, not mine ;-) Elvis has finally left the building. Im happy for the first time in a looooong time and right here, right now, thats all that matters. So, for you, and you know who you are, I dedicate this.

A New You for the New Year

I saw this post on a fellow bloggers site and I just had to share it. Never have truer words been spoken! This definitely opened my eyes to some things in my own life. Take the time to read it and you might just be enlightened yourself

Happy 2012!!

Whats up my bloggers! Hope everyone made it safely to 2012! This is my first blog of the new year! Yay! Unfortunately, its gonna be hella short lol. Theres much I wanna talk about but I just dont feel like blogging right now but I will definitely take the time to blog in the next couple days and let everyone know whats going on and coming up in the very near future with me. Big moves, lots of plans and plenty of smiles Stay tuned! TTFN!! (ta ta 4 now)

Hold the wheel will ya?

Ummm…I dont even know what to say about this. What is the world coming to that we women cant even take an extra 10 minutes at home to do a quick shave before going out on a date that we expect we might be getting some hanky panky on? So making sure that your cooch is cleanly shaven and ready for action bc of the possibility of “getting some” now supersedes the safety and life of not only yourself but everyone else on the road?? Wow. Clearly she didnt really care bc it even states that just the day before she was convicted of a DUI and driving on a suspended license as well as the car had no registration or insurance! Are you kidding me?!! HAHAHA. What I dont get is..if the ex husband was in the car with her why the hell didnt he just drive the damn car and let her do what she needed to do?? How much of a moron is he to actually be in the car with her trying to steer the car as she shaves driving down the highway to go on a date with some other dude anyway? Boy, I tell ya, the world has become a sad, sad place. Its situations like this that make me glad I DONT have a car anymore lol.

Beat dat b*tch with a bat

You ever have one of this days were you would like nothing more than to take a baseball bat and smash someones face in? And not just any someone, a particular someone…however for certain reasons you have to smile and act like everything is alright. So you stand there with the fakest Martha Stewart (before prison) smile on your face while all the while in your mind youre envisioning them having their face eaten by a shark and secretly giggling on the inside? Yep, today is one of those days. Lord, please forgive me. 

A birthday to remember…

Whats going people? As you can see I got the site back up revamped and looking all fly. *takes a bow* I worked my lil tushy off on this damn theme trying to make it perfect. Well, atleast perfect in MY eyes. I’m loving it so if you arent…suck it! haha. As you may or may not all know, today…well, yesterday as of now, was my birthday. Yea, the big 37. Pick your mouths up. Yes, Im actually 37. I can I can say Im blessed atleast not to look as old as I am bur Lord knows, I feel it! Although it was my birthday, it was actually kinda sucky. I didnt really do anything. No, correction, I DIDNT do anything. All I did was sit in the house and play on the net then took a nap. Being single on your birthday really sucks. I guess if you’re a “party” person then being single is great cuz you can go out and do the party/club scene and get your freak on. But thats not my style so for lil ole me, it was a boring and slightly depressing ass birthday. I got a bazillion birthday wishes, calls, text and messages. Even from people that I didnt think remembered it was my birthday lol. but its not the same as being able to spend it with someone special. Yes, I am ‘talking’ to someone but #1 we arent that serious or in a committed relationship yet and #2 they arent here in this area so I couldnt do anything with him. My roommate did cook for me all day which was nice bc for a change I didnt have to cook, but that was really about it. My family told me not to sweat it bc when I go home week after next we’ll celebrate then but its still not quite the same as being able to do something on your actual birthday, ya know? Its funny bc there were 3 people that I expected to actually hear from today that I didnt, so needless to say, they will be getting a serious tongue lashing (and NOT in a good way) when I do talk to them again. But nevertheless, it is what it is. It came, it went and Im still here so I am blessed and thankful to have been here for another year. I just pray that this next year will be a better year than this last one. I know I’m going to do what I can to make it a better year. Lets just hope that the “Powers That Be” have no issues with that. Anyway, gonna bring this to a close and go watch a movie or something. Peace Out!

A little “graphic” humor…

Happy Birthday Me!!

Happy Birthday Me!! Yes, I did post a pic of a Mickey Mouse cake! LOL. You all know Im a M.M. fanatic so who else else would I be sporting proudly on my birthday?? Unfortunately, its not MY cake but I still thought it was a cool ass cake. Today I am another year older and proudly, another year wiser.

Mykela

til death do us part….

You know, initially I wasn’t going to blog tonight but after having a conversation with a friend of mine, it really got some things stirred up in me. Marriage. well, actually, fidelity in a marriage. Me, personally, I have NEVER cheated on anyone that I have been with. And Im actually quite proud to say that. Yea, there may have been a time where I saw someone and said “damn I would love to hit that!!” but I never did it and I could never see myself doing it. I dont understand people these days who just cant seem to keep it in their pants and stay faithful to their mate! I dont get it. I really dont. If you loved that person enough to actually stand before God, friends and family and say “I do” then why dont you? I mean, is it a chemical imbalance? Faulty wiring? Or are we just automatically predisposed to cheat? And its not just men. Although, granted, I will say that more men probably cheat than women, but its us women too. I know some females who whore around just as much as the men do and to me its just downright shameful. I have been in some pretty jacked up and bad relationships and even then, I still didnt cheat. Ive even been cheated on and still didnt cheat. The way I see it is, if you arent happy in your marriage or current relationship and you feel the need to have to go outside your home to find something that you need then its either A) time for you to move on and find someone who CAN fulfill everything that you need or B) tell your partner that you feel something is lacking and see if you can work together to restore it. But cheating? Thats just wrong. Period. No matter what else is going on there is never a justifiable reason for someone to go outside of their relationship to receive satisfaction from elsewhere.

all rolled into one…

Wassup folks. Well as u can see GET.com is finally back on the map! Yay! Yea, I know, it took forever but Ive had alot going on these last few weeks. As well as you can see, everything has been redesigned. I think everything is functional but I’m still tweaking things here and there so bare with me. Nevertheless, I’m here So…whats been going on in my world? Wow. So much has transpired since the last time I was able to blog. Well, I became a aunt…again! As well as a great aunt! Woo hoo! Two new additions to the family. The first was my niece Ms Cambria Lashay born Aug 29th 2011 and the 2nd was my great nephew Mr Mar’Shaun Taliq born Nov 7th 2011. Both of them are truly a blessing and I’m thrilled at their births!